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Wedding Jargon

Wedding Jargon

Welcome to the world of wedding terminology.

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As you start your wedding planning journey, you might find yourself surrounded by wedding jargon that seems confusing at first! It can feel like learning a whole new language. But don't worry, we've got you covered.

We understand how overwhelming it can be to encounter all these unfamiliar terms. That's why we're here to help clarify some of the commonly misunderstood wedding jargon, making your planning process smoother and less stressful.




Wedding Jargon


Wedding Breakfast: Contrary to what the name suggests, the wedding breakfast isn't served in the morning. It refers to your first meal as newlyweds shared with your guests.

No Corkage: This term indicates that the wedding venue does not charge a fee for the happy couple to bring their own daytime drinks.

Carriages: A traditional term politely informing guests what time the celebrations end and when they should arrange transport home.

Celebrant/Registrar: A celebrant is a person who officiates at a wedding ceremony, whereas a registrar is a government official who legally conducts and registers marriages.

Wedding Favours: These are small gifts given to guests as a token of appreciation for attending the wedding. They can range from personalised trinkets to edible treats and are often placed at each guest's table setting.


    Wedding Jargon Continued...


    First Look: A private moment between the couple before the ceremony, where they see each other for the first time in their wedding attire, usually captured by the photographer.

    Toasts: Speeches given by selected guests during the reception to honour the couple and wish them well.

    Canapés: Small, bite-sized appetisers served during the drinks reception, typically accompanied by drinks.

    Reception/Drinks Reception: The Drinks Reception is the post-ceremony celebration where guests congratulate the couple and socialise over some drinks and light refreshments. The term 'Reception' can also refer to the evening celebrations following The Wedding Breakfast.

    Buttonholes: Also known as boutonnieres, these are floral arrangements traditionally worn by the groom, groomsmen, and sometimes other male members of the wedding party. They are typically pinned to the lapel of a suit jacket or tuxedo.




    Wedding Acronyms


    MOB: Mother of the Bride

    MOG: Mother of the Groom

    FOB: Father of the Bride

    FOG: Father of the Groom

    MOH: Maid of Honour

    BM: Bridesmaid/Best Man

    MC: Master of Ceremonies/Spokesperson

    RB: Ring Bearer

    These are just a few examples of typical wedding jargon you might come across while planning your big day at The Ashes Barns. Getting familiar with these terms can eliminate any confusion and ensure that planning your special day goes smoothly.

    Beautiful photography by Cris Lowis Photography.


    Cris Lowis Photography